Robert J. Julia, Jr., passed away suddenly on March 11, 2021, of Gloucester Twp., NJ; formerly of Philadelphia, PA. Age 34.
Beloved father of Robert J. Julia, III. Devoted son of Robert J. Julia, Sr. and Loretta Julia (nee Rutter). Loving fiancé of Jordanna DeCastro. Dear brother of Nicole Figaniak (Brian) and Alexis Julia. Uncle of Julian and Phoenix. Grandson of the late Andrew & Helen Julia and the late Frank & Loretta Rutter. Also survived by many aunts, uncles, and cousins.
There will be a viewing from 7pm to 9pm Wednesday evening and from 10am to 11am Thursday morning at GARDNER FUNERAL HOME, RUNNEMEDE.
Funeral service 11am Thursday at the funeral home.
Interment is private at the request of the family.
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3 Years without you my beautiful Angel. It feels like yesterday but can feel so long ago, all I know is there is such a void that will never be filled and that’s ok because it belongs to you. Your name is engraved on a brick on the side of Mummers Museum, one of the many ways I will keep your name and memory alive, in ways that were special to us. I will celebrate your life and memory always. Thank you for all of the beautiful signs you send me, thank you for keeping your promise but mostly thank you for sharing the most unconditional love we gave each other, it will last forever. I love and miss you more than life my Luv and nobody knows it but “we”. I’ll carry you with me forever💔❤️🕊️
Happy Valentine’s Day my “foreva and Eva soupmate” 💔❤️🤍 Horrible day!! I miss you! I love you! You are my forever Valentine❤️❤️❤️
XXXV… I can’t believe in a month it will be 3 years you are gone. It still feels like yesterday, I remember how our last hug felt. I close my eyes and see your beautiful smile. I know you were with me yesterday with the signs you sent as I was setting up the 2 special things in your Memory and Honor that I know you will LOVE. It was us and It is how I choose to honor and remember you. Your not going to believe the one thing because it’s one of the things you told me never to say never too, I just wish I had done while you were here and not doing it in your memory. The last words you said to me were “I’ll wait for you forever”, Bobby I’ll honor love and remember you forever 💔🤍♥️
XXIV… Missing you more than ever my Luv… New Years was so hard this year. Starting another year without you. I looked at our pictures yesterday and It’s all becoming harder again. I miss you more than life. I will never get over losing you. I know you’re in peace and watching over everyone who loves you. This void and pain will never go away until we are together again. Until then I will forever love you and honor your memory in ways I know you would love. I love you my Luv 💔🤍❤️
Happy New Year My Luv… Our favorite day of the year, so many great memories with you on that day. No parade this since I was born but you and the ppl who love and care about me know why, these past 5 months you’ve gotten me through so many hard days during my procedues, the scariest time of my life, but I’ll be back next year honoring you as I will always do. You are missed, you are loved, and you will NEVER be forgotten!!! I love you now and forever!! 2024 is dedicated to you!! 🎉🎊💔❤️❤️
Our favorite day ❤️🎉🎊
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“Bobby and Me” Thabk you Aunt Nina for always keeping Bobby’s memory alive for me 🤍
Merry Heavenly Christmas My Angel… i still can’t believe you’re not here. I miss you more today than yesterday. The pain of losing you has not gotten better it’s gotten worse, especially on days like today. The memories of us and of you consume me, and I will cherish them forever. I will love you always.🎄💔❤️
6 years ago today you proposed to me… it was definitely the most special moment I’ve ever had. You brought me to a place you knew I would love and completely surprised me when I turned around and you were on your knee, you were so nervous and I kept saying it ok babe holding your face we were both crying but smiling and I’ll never forget that moment ever and the beautiful words you said to me. I miss you more than life Bobby. I am yours eternally and you are mine my Luv 💔❤️❤️❤️❤️
XXXIII, last months post was wrong, but I realized it doesn’t matter what date day time or holiday it is Bobby, I miss you more than words could describe, no words could express enough the pain of losing a soulmate or as we said “soulmates”. My best friend, my biggest fan and supporter, I miss you today, more than yesterday but one more day closer. I love you 💔💔❤️❤️
Thanksgiving, your favorite holiday besides NYD… I don’t know if it’s you doing it but my posts aren’t posting right away, just like “our” texts would do, how I miss you, how I miss US, but on this day I’m so grateful and thankful I was lucky enough to meet my soulmate in this lifetime. Bobby, you taught me what true unconditional love is and the days the pain is too hard and I wish I never felt it, it’s a reminder of how lucky I was to have had you for the time that I did. I love and miss you so much my Luv. Forever in my heart and soul 💔❤️
XXXlll…. 11:11, I know it’s always a sign from you. I miss you so much my Luv. I don’t know when this is supposed to get “tolerable” and I really don’t know how so many people go through this pain. I love you, I miss you, forever yours forever mine❤️. Keep shinning my beautiful Angel 🤍
XXXI… seems so close yet so far away my Luv… it’s like a never ending roller coaster I’m still on, waiting for you to get me off of it. The last 4 years of your life we were each other’s lives, the day you became an Angel I became lost in this world. We were planning the next 40+ years of our lives together. We were finally right there… Keep shinning my beautiful Angel, I will see you in my dreams with your gorgeous smile and the beautiful signs you send me all of the time, they are amazing! Thank you for keeping your promise. I knew you would never leave me. I love you so much Bobby 💔❤️
XXX… Another month closer to being with you again but until then I will never stop loving you, missing you and keeping your memory alive My Luv. The past month has been harder than the rest, between our anniversary, your birthday, your son’s birthday, every 11th of every month, and when I have needed you the most but I know you’re with me Bobby. Keep shinning beautiful beautiful Angel and keep the signs coming, I hear you 😇💔❤️❌⭕️
Happy 37th Heavenly Birthday my gorgeous Angel… How much I miss you and wish you were here to celebrate you is indescribable, especially this year, when I need you the most, but I know you are helping me get through each day. I wish you all the peace and beauty heaven has to offer, I hope you’re dancing, I hope you’re singing and the happiest you have ever been because no one deserves it more than you Bobby. Forever young, Never Forgotten, and missed more than life. I love you so much my Luv Foreva and Eva 🥳 💔❤️😘❌⭕️❌⭕️
XXIX… These past 2 days have been so hard Bobby, It doesn’t get easier, it still feels unreal. I love you always my Luv, I miss you more than life. I know your with me and I will carry you with me forever. 💔❤️❌⭕️
6 years ago we found out what true love is and that we were “soupmates”, I’ll love you forever My Luv.
That’s your suit you wore NYD 2018 in the mummers museum!! I know you love it!! I will always keep your memory alive my Luv. I miss you so much babe ❤️❌⭕️
Never stop strutting my love!!! I do it all for you!! ☂️❤️❌⭕️
XXVIII… “Lift me up, hold me down, keep me close, safe and sound, burning in a hopeless dream, hold me when I fall asleep, keep me in your warm embrace”… I miss you so much my Luv. Our love and knowing you will always be with me I guess is what gives me the strength to keep me going. Forever in my heart and soul Bobby. I love you so much. 💔❤️❌⭕️❌⭕️
Your favorite girls had a spa/dinner day Saturday. It was such a beautiful day and of coarse you had to control it, you know what we mean lol… We love you and miss you more than life. 💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️
Your favorite girls (Lexi was there too) having a spa/dinner day and of coarse you ran it all lol… we love and miss you more than life!! 😘😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❌⭕️❌⭕️
Your favorite girls (Lexi was there too) having a spa/dinner day and of coarse you ran it all lol… we love and miss you more than life!! 😘😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❌⭕️❌⭕️
Happy Heavenly Father’s Day My Luv… All I could do is think about you today, I know you heard me because you sent that sign. Thank you for letting me know you’re ok. Please watch over your son Bobby, he is such an amazing kid, I know you’re so proud of him. You were an amazing father and friend to him, I loved watching you two tiger and seeing how how you both loved each other, Best Buds for life… I love and miss you Bobby, more than anyone could imagine. 💔❤️❌⭕️
27… I miss you so much My Luv. I can’t stop thinking of you, you’re forever in my heart and soul. Never stop sending the signs my gorgeous love. I know you’re with me. I love you always Bobby
I can’t stop thinking of you my gorgeous Luv, I’m watching some of our videos, I still can’t believe it’s real babe 💔😢 I miss you more than life
26 months until I’m closer to seeing you again. I loved my sign… you never ever fail my Red Cardinal, and always when I need it most. I love you and miss you more than any words could describe. I know you were with all of us at Julian’s Communion Party Saturday and how proud you are of them… especially little Bobby, well he’s not little anymore and he is just as gorgeous as his father. Keep guiding and protecting him babe. We play Justin Bieber, because we miss you more than life . I love you so much My Luv
Always thinking of you my Luv ❤️ I know you’re with me but I miss you more than any words could explain. I love you Bobby❤️
I hate the 11th of every month, I hate Thursday mornings at 10:47a.m…. The past 25 months have been unreal without you. I miss you, I love you foreva and Eva 💔❤️❌⭕️
Happy Easter my luv, I know you’re shining down on all of us, guiding and protecting us, but I miss you so much babe. Nothing is happy without you but as long as I know and believe you are in peace, until we meet again, I will carry you with me always and keep your beautiful memory alive. I love you Bobby, more than life. ❤️
“The nights are lonely, the days are so sad, I can’t stop thinking about the love that we had, I’m missing you, and nobody knows it but me”…. My Luv, it’s one of those night’s, you really took a huge piece of me with you, the void I feel is so deep, but after all of the signs you showed me today, all I can say is Wow babe, your spirit is so strong and beautiful my Angel. I know you’re with me, I hope you never leave my side. I’ll never get over you, or the thoughts of our goals and dreams but I want to make you proud babe… I miss you more than life Bobby. I love you so much my “soupmate”.
2 Years without you Bobby, I still cannot believe it’s real, but I live every second with this huge void of not having you and and your love in my life. I know you’re with me babe, It has to be you that is getting me through theses days. I cherish all of our amazing memories and will always hold them close to my heart until I get to see you again. Please keep watching over all of us, especially your son Bobby, I know you are so proud of him. He looks, walks, and acts just like you. I love you I love you and miss you more than life… My Babyluv
❤️💔Valentine’s Day my Luv… Always and Forever in my heart Bobby. I miss you so much… I love you Angel💔❤️
23… I miss you so much my Luv… Time doesn’t heal, I miss you more today than yesterday. I cherish our memories, our unconditional love, but most of all think of the life we were supposed to have together. No one could ever take your place. You are my forever “soupmate”, the most beautiful guardian angel anyone could have. Please never leave me, you’ve kept your promises so far, your signs are amazing and you show me your with me just when I need them the most. I love you Bobby more than life. 💔❤️
I miss you so much Bobby, Friday nights are so hard, I miss our dance parties “love taught me who was the boss”, it was our favorite night, I can see your smile and happiness when I think of you… I never realized how many amazing memories we made together that I will cherish forever. We were so lucky to have each other and we always will. I love you so much babe. 💔❤️
22... Babe, It’s still so unreal you’re not here but the pain and void that I feel is so real. I know and feel your spirit is with me always… The memories we shared are so vivid in my mind, heart, and soul, and always will be. I cherish them all so much. I miss you more today than yesterday my Luv. I love you Bobby. Continue to shine our gorgeous Angel 💔❤️❌⭕️
My gorgeous Luv how I miss you 💔❌⭕️
Bobby I’m having such a hard time without you, but I know you’re with me. Your spirit is so strong, you kept your promise we made with each other and you never disappoint me. I miss you “more than life I love you more than the air that so breath”. Continue to watch over all of us our gorgeous Angel. I love you my Luv 💔❌⭕️❌⭕️
New Years 2023
Happy New Year My Luv, I know you were with me all day today on our favorite day. Bobby it’s kills living without you, I miss you so much it hurts. Another year with out you but it’s another year closer to being with you again one day. Until then continue to enjoy paradise my luv, and never stop watching over me. Our beautiful memories will forever live on in my heart and soul. I love and miss you more than life.
From Aunt Nina
Our ornament from Nikki 🎄❤️
Our ornament from Nikki 🎄❤️
Merry Christmas my love, I miss you so much and days like today are unbearable. Your sister Nikki gave me the most beautiful ornament for your tree 🎄, the words on it are so true 💔 Please continue to watch over all of us and guide us like you have been, especially your son. I know you are so proud of him, he is just like you babe. You are in my mind heart and soul and will be forever. I love you Bobby 😢❤️
My Luv, 5 years ago today you asked me to be your wife, but I knew the first time wet met, we were it for each other. It was the most special moment of our lives… nothing and no one around us mattered. I remember every second of it and every word you said. You made it so special and it is a memory that is forever in my heart mind and soul. I love and miss you so much my soupmate. Especially this time of year. Forever with me Babe.
21… I miss you so much My Luv. No words and no one could ever imagine unless they lost their “soupmate” too. Time doesn’t heal all wounds it just makes it more real that you are a beautiful Angel now watching over all of us. You are loved and missed more than any words could explain. Never leave my side Bobby, you will never leave my heart and soul. 💔❤️❌⭕️
Happy Thanksgiving my love. There is nothing happy about today without you here but I am so thankful that you are my soul mate and I was so lucky to be yours. Like we said, we were so lucky to have our unconditional love. I will cherish it and you forever. I love and miss you so much. Please watch over Kara up there, you know how much she loved you. 💔😢❤️❤️
20… My gorgeous guardian Angel, thank you for always being with me, your spirit is so strong and beautiful just like you! Bobby no words can explain how much I miss you my Luv💔 Another day closer to seeing you again… Please continue to guide and protect us all who love and miss you and please keep sending signs. Your spirit will always live on as I carry you in my heart and soul every second of everyday. I love you Babe😢❤️❤️❤️❌⭕️❌⭕️
I miss you so much my Luv💔❤️
19💔 19 months since you’ve been gone but not for one second have you or will you ever be forgotten Bobby. I love you and miss you so much. Thank you for being with me today, I know you were. Please never leave me babe, just like you promised me. I know you in peace my gorgeous Luv. I miss you more than life💔❤️❌⭕️
18💔 I can’t believe it’s a year and a half without you My Luv. People tell me it will get easier in time but those people never lost their “soupmate” and best friend, it feels like it’s getting harder. Unconditional true love can last a day or a hundred years, all you need it to feel one second of it and when you lose it you lose a piece of yourself you didn’t even realize you had. You are my heart and soul, I love you so much Bobby and miss you more than life itself.
Happy Heavenly 36th Birthday my gorgeous Luv… I will never get over you not being here but I know you are at peace and a beautiful Angel. I miss you Bobby every second of every day. Please continue to watch over me and give me the strength and hope to get through each day without you. You only get one “Soupmate” and I’m so grateful it was you. I’m lost without you but in your honor I will continue to try my best to make you proud. I love you I love you you love you my forever Babyluv 💔😢❤️
17… No matter where life takes me I will never stop counting until we meet again my Luv. Your memory will live on in me forever. Thank you for all of the signs you send me, please don’t ever stop, your spirit is so strong and beautiful, I wouldn’t expect anything less from you. I love and miss you my gorgeous Angel. “Soupmate’s” Forever 💔❤️
Happy 5 year “Anni my Angel”, as you would wish me every 10th of the month, never expecting one day you will be my Angel… 5 years ago I met you, my soulmate and best friend, we planned on “mixing and matching” our lives together forever babe… we knew and cherished our special bond and unconditional love that I carry with me, along with your memory every second of every day. You are forever in my heart and soul that I have left because you took a piece of me when you became a beautiful Angel. I love and miss you Bobby, more than any words can explain. 💔😢❤️
God how I miss you Bobby😢💔 I love you my Babyluv❤️
I miss you more than life 😢💔❤️
16… I miss you so much my gorgeous luv… Thank you for the sign this morning, I really needed it and you never disappoint me, thank you for keeping your promise to me. I know it is you that helps me get through each day because they are so hard without you. Please continue to watch over your family, especially your son Bobby, I know you are so proud of him. I carry you with me in my heart and soul and I always will. I love you so much Bobby. 💔 ❤️❤️❤️
I love and miss you my gorgeous Luv. We share a bond no one can break or could every understand. “We knew, others wish they did” that’s all that mattered and I will cherish our unconditional love always, Soupmates forever my gorgeous Angel.
Happy Heavenly Father’s Day my gorgeous Luv. Please continue to watch over your son. He is such an amazing kid, I know you are so proud of him. He reminds me of you so much. I love and miss you more than any words can explain. 💔😘❤️
My Luv, my gorgeous Angel, I miss you more than anything in this world but I know you are with me and giving me the strength to get through each day without you. No one can ever take away what we had, NO one. You will live on in me forever and I will always keep you memory alive. I love you My Babyluv. 💔❤️
15💔… I miss you so my gorgeous Angel. Everyday is hard without you here, but this date every month is unbearable. Bobby you live in my heart and soul and always will. I love you my forever soupmate. 💔❤️❤️❤️
I miss you so much babe 😢 I know you’re with me 💔 My forever Luv❤️
My Luv, you never cease to amaze me, just when I need you, you show me your with me. Thank you for waking me up to the most gorgeous Red Cardinal. I needed that today Bobby, that’s number 2, the 2nd one I saw was with your mom last June 3rd, after telling her I saw the first one the week before. I’ve never seen one in my life until you went to paradise. It was the most beautiful experience her and I shared together. It was gorgeous just like you and flying free just like I know you are. It was your way of telling us your happy and I’m peace. I love and miss you more each day. I love you my Luv. Soupmates forever 😢💔❤️
14… I’ll never stop counting until we are together again My Luv… I miss you so much Bobby. 😢💔❤️
Babe, I’m missing you so much today, just when I think I can’t miss you anymore than I do it hits me harder. I listen to our favorite songs and keep you alive through all of the memories we have together. They are so special because they are only between us and I will cherish them forever. Please continue to watch over all of us, we need it, we love and miss you beyond words. I love you my forever Babyluv
Happy Heavenly Easter My Luv I miss you more than any words could explain. Continue to guide us all especially your gorgeous twin little Bobby. We are all missing you terribly but we keep your beautiful memories alive. I love you my gorg Forever ❤️❌⭕️💋
My Luv, 13 months without, feels like a lifetime, yet feels like yesterday. I miss your smile, I miss our unconditional love, I miss you so much but I m ow you are with me watching over me. I love you Babe😢💔❤️
No words can describe how much I miss you my luv. Nothing is the same without you. Everyday is just another day closer until we meet again. Until then you are and always will always be my “soupmate” forever. Please continue to watch over all of us. I love you Bobby 💔😢❤️❤️❤️
My Luv, one year without you felt like a lifetime. I still don’t believe it or understand it but being with your son and family means the world to me. You are missed more than any words can explain. We are celebrating the amazing son, father, fiancé, brother, uncle and friend you were. You had a heart of hold and anyone who knew you knows the unimaginable loss we all feel that no words can ever explain. I love and miss you so much I’m forever heartbroken but cherish every minute we had together. We will be celebrating your life tomorrow at Nikki and Bryan’s. I know you will be shining down on us and smiling. We are so lucky to have the best guardian Angel anyone could ask for. “It’s better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all”. I love you my gorgeous Luv. 💔😢❤️❤️❤️❤️
❤️💔❤️😘Valentines Day My Luv❤️💔❤️😘
I miss you more and more each day. You took a piece of my heart with you and I will forever carry your love with me. No one could ever take our love away. I love you Bobby ❌⭕️❌⭕️❌⭕️
The nights are lonely the days are so sad, I can’t stop thinking about the special unconditional love that we had, that no one could ever take away. I’m missing you every minute of every day my luv. ❤️
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NYE❤️
NYE❤️
NYE❤️
NYE❤️
NYE❤️
My Luv, 10 months since I’ve heard your voice, the 10th of the month is also our “Anni”. I miss you more than any word could explain. The holidays were so hard without you but the time I spent with your family especially your son meant the world to me. I’m so lucky to have them. You are missed you are loved and you will never be forgotten. I will carry you with me forever ❤️
Babe, yesterday was Thanksgiving, and your not here, I miss you more than any words could explain, we all do. 💔😪 I’m so thankful to have had you and your love in my life and I am thankful to have your family in my life now and always. Nothing is the same without you, and it never will be. You are truly my Angel, thank you for the sign today, you knew I needed it. Continue to watch over all of us, especially Bobby and your parents. He is so gorgeous, he looks just and acts just like you. He was so brave his first day at his new school, and he is so good in football. You would be so proud of him. He is in the best hands. You are loved, you are missed, you will never be forgotten my Luv. ❤️😪
Happy heavenly 35th birthday my angel… I love and miss you so much. I know you loved the celebration of life we had for you with all of your loved ones here missing you so much. I hope you got all of the lanterns and balloons we sent up to you! It was was beautiful just like you. You were the best my love. Little Bobby and I stayed up until 6am talking about you and we snuck and ate uncrustables at 4am just like we used to do… he is you absolute twin! Please continue to watch over us, especially your mom and dad, I know your guiding them and giving them the strength that they need because your son has a heart of gold just like you did. You are missed, you are loved, you will NEVER be forgotten. We have the best guardian angel anyone could ask for. Please don’t stop sending us all of the signs you’ve been sending. I love you my Babyluv… I will carry you with me forever.